Do you have a best
friend? What do you think about best friend?
What is best friend? To me, best friend is important. Why? Because human
is a social being and no one can live by herself. Human needs a friend or a
best friend that can accompany her in sad or happy situations. The presence of
a best friend is not a thing to replace your spouse or lover.
Speaking of companions
for us would have been familiar with the meaning of a friendship. To me,
friendship is where I can really find care, as a place for me to express the
feelings I feel inside and also a love for a best friend. When I was in high
school, I make friends with everyone, but there is no one that I could call “my
best friend”. As the time went by, finally I found a best friend. It started
because we shared stories and experiences. Shortly, I took her as my best
friend, but I didn’t make friends with only one person, but also with the other
5 people. To me, this is the first time that I can really find a friendship
where each one of us tell stories about our experiences, helping each other,
and we do open up and the most important thing is that friendship is a place
where it gives you many colors in your life, also becomes the most beautiful
moment which you won’t be able to forget.
Then, how can we keep
that friendship? Everything that we went through, sometimes it’s tiring and
annoying, the same goes when we gather together with our best friends.
Friendship sometimes go through something like this, but this is where the
value that make this friendship beautiful, exists. Friendship won’t always go
smoothly, but it needs a long process, just like sharpening an iron, friendship
is about when a best friend sharpen her best friend.
Having a true friend is
more valuable than a thousand friends selfish. In its heyday, the friends we
know. In tribulations, we know our friends. Everyone will need true friends,
but not everyone managed to get it. Many people who have enjoyed the beauty of
friendship, but there are so devastated his best friend betrayed.
That in friendship with
anyone, even if have to go through joy, pain, get entertained, get hurt, get
cared for, get disappointed, or maybe get ignored : remember that all that
happen is not for the purpose to hate, and a best friend won’t hide her mistake
to avoid the conflict, but exactly because of their love, they will take the
liberty to scold other genuinely.
