Humans often don't look for problems to its foundations, many people in this world are now experiencing lifestyle. Eccedentesiast is a person who hides a lot of things with a smile, sometimes it is sad, traumatic and depression. Why is there a pattern like this?
Some say Eccedentesiast is hypocritical, isn't really accurate to say that is so. The eccedentesiast and most people often say they are strong, able to smile in sorrow or trouble them. That we don't think is what is healthy smile? People who are steadfast and strong in the face of problems or loss divided into two types, those who can let go of all their grief and decide to be happy while others are pretending to be happy. Like those who throw out the salt and salt they are consuming. They are throwing salt will not taste salty salt but those who ate the salt will taste the salty taste.
So is the problem, pretending to be happy is like ingesting salt. When people ask what you hold the salt, you can say no because of the salt you eat. But over time continue to eat salt to avoid people see you holding the salt will harm your health. Why are many people who prefer to smile even though she did not want to smile? It was a result of the social environment we are seeing that grief is taboo. When people see people are sad, they will require the person to look happy. Not because they care about the person, but for the satisfaction of his own heart to see people sad because it was not pleasant. Most mainstream sayings is, "How do you sad? Smiles wrote, so right now you add more beautiful."
Everyone has a period where she felt sick, sad, lost, disappointed and angry. That's not a bad thing, it is the journey of life so that they are getting stronger. Internalize it but don't deal with it will only lead to stress or depression for a long time. Amazingly, a eccedentesiast is a very good entertainer. The more people were injured, the smarter he please others. Although he cannot solve big problems hers, she could easily resolve the minor problems of others. There is a story about Eccedentesiast very famous, and very inspiring thought. Here's his story.
In the middle of a very busy city famous for a great clown in comforting others. The number of jobs, severe economic problems, and the problems of the metropolis made a lot of people who come to clown it just to enjoy the jokes and laughter made by a clown who is not known who the person behind the mask funny. On one day there was someone who came to the well-known psychiatrist, she tells some of the problems he faced until finally he said, "Why is the problem in the world is very difficult? Many I have to finish with myself, I was confused, I was frustrated in dealing with problems in this world, such as the endless problems that came to me ... "
The psychiatrist told him "You've yes in this city? What do you know, in the city center there is a very famous clown, he is good at making other people smile when they feel frustrated as you are, why do not you try to come to him, you will feel entertained." The psychiatrist's room was suddenly silent, the patient was silent, he looked down, and immediately the tears out of his eyes. "How can I be entertained by the clown?" he asked.
"What about? Why can not you comforted by it?" the psychiatrist began confused, because patients usually go straight to the clowns and entertainment, but not this one patient. "Because ..." the patient began to cry, he tried his powerful was saying, she tried to hold back tears and tightness in the chest, and said, "Because ... I was the clown ..."
Every person deserves to be happy, everyone has freedom in his life. There is no harm sad and crying, if momentary sadness that makes you become stronger and wiser. Makes you more appreciative of happiness. Acknowledge that you took care of yourself, before you say you'll be fine let yourself be entertained because you deserve happiness. He deserves love you.
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