[Knowledge] Meaning of Eccedentesiast

Humans often don't look for problems to its foundations, many people in this world are now experiencing lifestyle. Eccedentesiast is a person who hides a lot of things with a smile, sometimes it is sad, traumatic and depression. Why is there a pattern like this?

Some say Eccedentesiast is hypocritical, isn't really accurate to say that is so. The eccedentesiast and most people often say they are strong, able to smile in sorrow or trouble them. That we don't think is what is healthy smile? People who are steadfast and strong in the face of problems or loss divided into two types, those who can let go of all their grief and decide to be happy while others are pretending to be happy. Like those who throw out the salt and salt they are consuming. They are throwing salt will not taste salty salt but those who ate the salt will taste the salty taste.

So is the problem, pretending to be happy is like ingesting salt. When people ask what you hold the salt, you can say no because of the salt you eat. But over time continue to eat salt to avoid people see you holding the salt will harm your health. Why are many people who prefer to smile even though she did not want to smile? It was a result of the social environment we are seeing that grief is taboo. When people see people are sad, they will require the person to look happy. Not because they care about the person, but for the satisfaction of his own heart to see people sad because it was not pleasant. Most mainstream sayings is, "How do you sad? Smiles wrote, so right now you add more beautiful."

Everyone has a period where she felt sick, sad, lost, disappointed and angry. That's not a bad thing, it is the journey of life so that they are getting stronger. Internalize it but don't deal with it will only lead to stress or depression for a long time. Amazingly, a eccedentesiast is a very good entertainer. The more people were injured, the smarter he please others. Although he cannot solve big problems hers, she could easily resolve the minor problems of others. There is a story about Eccedentesiast very famous, and very inspiring thought. Here's his story.

In the middle of a very busy city famous for a great clown in comforting others. The number of jobs, severe economic problems, and the problems of the metropolis made a lot of people who come to clown it just to enjoy the jokes and laughter made by a clown who is not known who the person behind the mask funny. On one day there was someone who came to the well-known psychiatrist, she tells some of the problems he faced until finally he said, "Why is the problem in the world is very difficult? Many I have to finish with myself, I was confused, I was frustrated in dealing with problems in this world, such as the endless problems that came to me ... "

The psychiatrist told him "You've yes in this city? What do you know, in the city center there is a very famous clown, he is good at making other people smile when they feel frustrated as you are, why do not you try to come to him, you will feel entertained." The psychiatrist's room was suddenly silent, the patient was silent, he looked down, and immediately the tears out of his eyes. "How can I be entertained by the clown?" he asked.

"What about? Why can not you comforted by it?" the psychiatrist began confused, because patients usually go straight to the clowns and entertainment, but not this one patient. "Because ..." the patient began to cry, he tried his powerful was saying, she tried to hold back tears and tightness in the chest, and said, "Because ... I was the clown ..."

Every person deserves to be happy, everyone has freedom in his life. There is no harm sad and crying, if momentary sadness that makes you become stronger and wiser. Makes you more appreciative of happiness. Acknowledge that you took care of yourself, before you say you'll be fine let yourself be entertained because you deserve happiness. He deserves love you.

My secret

Hello Everyone!! I'm come back, yeah!

Today I want tell about my story, too many who want me to say, but this is my story.

I wonder where I would start a story, too much of that already I feel that what I feel that's also the experience of my life, but I learned from every experience I've been through. Here I believe to be a more mature both in attitude, the mind would also be deed. Not easy to live this life, this life is the life for me a very complicated for me to live too many challenges and obstacles that hinder me. But as time went on I met someone where he is part of my prayer also, because I prayed I would like to have someone who can I make as a friend and I wish he was a guy. Why guys? Because I want to, also can feel the beauty of friends or even a time when I could be her soulmate. In addition it turned out to vent with a guy much better than you vent with a girl, answer or solution that you accept whatever it will look different.

Don't forget this will turn again to ourselves each, to anyone we may confide but remember telling was the one who you believe and any answers or solutions that we receive, strain beforehand because there is of course also an answer or solution that you received can help you regardless of any stories that you tell. In the end my prayer was answered at God and I'm grateful. At the beginning we met it originated from me just to a friend's room and then because there is no work I was thinking to come to her room to ask for things that are not important. I've actually recognize him from our one Christian fellowship on campus. But we just know each other, or in other words you know me I know you. In fact, if it should be further acquainted like friends because they want to know each other.

The beginning of a difficult and strange when I begin to approach. Feels very awkward and stiff when start talking with him, I was in because it still has properties that bad when you first meet someone new. Shortly after it turned out he could find the atmosphere that initially looks very awkward and stiff. Long story short I was finally able to close and even in the short time he was the first to unfiltered he immediately assume and say I'm this match made in companions.

But it turns out what others say is true, if you had a friend a guy that can never be really you or he considers a friend forever. And it's true as time went on I liked him, but at the time I started to like him also immediately changed my attitude I started to love awkwardly and even I melt in an instant when he started to sing or he shows some works by him in making the lyrics songs.

Feeling that starts with liking can definitely end up with a sense of love. But I was trying to bury would guess that, because I also do not want the friendship which has started to be broken just because I like him, but he himself doesn't like me. Long story short it was not only my experience tells me that when I was chasing a love that is not possible I could get from people who are blind to my signal. Is my experience, or may have been past it hurts me? Yes very painful, on the one hand I had kept a profound expectations but on the other hand I did not want to be the one begging for love. More and more you chase me away that I used to feel.

But the past is only the past now I'm trying to get out of the past and start looking to the future to go ahead and move on. When I like people have become my best friend, he was also was like someone who turns out to be my own friend who also stayed one rental home with us. At first I was just introducing them mediocre, but time is running very fast. When they were finally going out, I have said before that my heart also to him. But alas, I wasn't her type and anyways I was only fit to be her friend.

Well that's the story of the love that I've been through so alone. But I always hope one day I can find my true love and when I have to get the right person I hope my love story with a happy ending can be. Then why I had said that life is hard? Because I have to live this life with a process that I enjoy are too long. Challenges and obstacles sometimes can not be run in accordance with the commitment, even 24 hours cann't be organized with maximum.

But finally I was made aware that life is not difficult to live. Just enjoy your life, enjoy the existing process. But remain always focused and remember what the priorities. The focus doesn't mean you will run in one direction only, but the focus of the course but a lot depends on you that determines the direction. I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't guarantee that others will be good people. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.